The 3 Easy And Simple Tips To Motivate Yourself

December 16th, 2011 by Shawn 1 comment »

A lot of times, it is not that you do not know what you want to accomplish in your life, it is that you do not have the energy and the motivation to do what is necessary to accomplish what you want. You know that you have to read more books and do more research; you know that you need to study the market, you know that you have to make more cold calls, but you just did not do it.

i don't stop when i'm tired. i stop when i'm doneAnd the reason is that you do not have the drive to do it. When talking about drive and motivation, everyone will have the same problem. We are all human beings and we will feel tired and down from time to time. The key is to learn how to manage it and get through it.

Every one of us will feel like no lethargic and no energy to do what we supposed to do. First, we are not committed enough to our dreams and our goals. If we are 100% committed, we will do whatever it takes as if our lives are dependent on our success. Just like if I point a gun on your head, you will do whatever as I ask you to. When you have this kind of commitment, you will do whatever it takes regardless of whether you have the drive and motivation.

Besides that, we are human and we will feel down some times. Come on, even computers will have down time. We will fall sick and have no energy to move on. This is a very normal issue that every one of us will face in the future.

Other than that, it is because we are not passionate enough with what we supposed to do. When you are truly passionate with what you want to do, you will do it even if you feel tired. Just like playing golf. If you are passionate with it, you will wake up at 6am in the morning and get to the golf course even if it is cold out there.

These are the 3 main factors that will either provide us with the motivation and drive, or will keep us from taking action to achieve our goals. So how are we going to deal with the lack of motivation?

The 3 Easy And Simple Tips To Keep You Motivated

1. Read motivational and self-help books, or listen to the audio or watch the movie clips. This is very easy to do and easy to accomplish. It is self-explanatory and I do not have to discuss much about it here. Whenever you read a story about how a normal person who has gone through all the difficult times, but still able to make it through and create success in his life, you will feel motivated because you imagine that you are doing the same and achieving the same results.

This is why reading books, listening to audio or watching motivational clips can drive us. Those inspiring stories and words are actually describing us and make us feel like we are in their position.

So make sure you spend some time into reading these great materials everyday. You can spend 30 minutes or more to read books if you want to. After a few years, you will see the changes that this habit can bring you.

2. Take your time and talk to someone who shares the same dreams like yours and someone who is more successful than you. It is not to say that you cannot talk to those who are not as successful as you, but you have to understand that most extraordinary people who have done it, they will radiate positive energy and they are able to guide you with their own experience most of the time.

You just have to make sure you talk about things that are related to your dreams that you want to achieve. If you are going to meet up to talk about gossip, your time can be better spend somewhere else. You can try this out as simple as inviting these people to have a drink. Take a tea break and share with them your dreams and ask them to share their success stories with you.

Some people do not like to read, and if you are this type of people, this second tip will work great for you. It is about finding what works for you and make good use of it. It can be as easy as discussing or talking about how you can improve your sales with your colleagues or your sales team. You can also share your dreams with your close friends that you think will support and give you energy. However, make sure you do not share with those who will look down on your dreams and pull you down. You can choose to talk other topics with them, but not your dreams.

This second tip is very easy to implement. Most people are using it everyday, whether they are using it to inspire and motivate themselves to achieve what they want is another story. This technique is a double edged sword. So use it wisely and you will get energy from someone who is on the same boat.

3. Just do it. Yes, just do it mechanically without putting in any thought into your mind. Do not think about it and just do it like a robot. Once you get it started, you will feel the momentum coming and you will have the drive to continue to do it.

This is a very effective strategy and is guarantee working as long as you work on it. It is difficult to make cold calls, but if you can do it mechanically without thinking about it, after a few calls, you will feel that the energy comes to you and you will have the motivation to keep on calling. The same goes for every other action. You just have to initiate it and you will see the momentum bring out the energy.

These are the 3 simple tactics that you can try out anytime and at anywhere you want. You just have to try them and you will see how powerful they are.

If You Want To Be Successful, You Have To Stay In The Water

December 13th, 2011 by Shawn 1 comment »

Do you know what I mean when I say that you have to stay in the water? Well, if you are fishing, you have to keep the bait in the water all the time. This is what is going to attract the fish to come over to your bait.

stay in the gameThe same goes in life. If you want to close sales, you have to always go out there to meet up your clients and make your presentation. If you are a telemarketer, you have to make the calls to close the deal. In other words, you have to always be active and create activities all the time.

This is the fundamental rule to success. If you think about success but you are not doing anything about it, you will never achieve it. If you want to win a lottery, you have to buy one. Although staying in the water is not going to guarantee your success, it is the most basic key that will generate the results and reveal to you the right path to accomplish what you want in life.

For example, if you want to be the best tennis player in your country, you have to stay in the water by keeping yourself busy with training and improving your games. It is not guarantee that you will become the best after going through all the training, but it will definitely help you get you closer to your dreams and your goals.

This is why you need to constantly read books that will improve yourself and keep you motivated all the time. When you are doing the work, you are actually creating the path and producing the results that you want.

Success will not come to you automatically. You will never become a millionaire by accident. It is only when you are ready and when the opportunity arrives, you grab it and you will launch your life to another level.

The key here is to always be ready. And how can you do that? The answer is by keeping yourself in the game at all times. Do you think that Michael Jordan and Tiger Woods become the best player because of luck? Not likely, they trained hard by being in the water all the time, and when the time comes, they grab the chance and they become the best player in their field.

It is the same for Donald Trump, Bill Gates and every other extraordinary people out there. They are ready when the opportunity falls into their hands. They grab the opportunity and run with it.

If you are not ready, it will be useless even if the opportunity presents to you. Take back the example of being the best tennis player. If you are not ready and suddenly someone offers you a chance to play in the national championship, do you think you can win? You know the answer.

And nobody will actually offer you an opportunity if you are not in the game. No one will suddenly offer you to play in a championship if you are not even playing tennis. It all comes back to the same principle again. You have to stay in the water so that the opportunity will come to you.

There is no accident in this world. Everything happens for a reason. When you closed a big deal because of your relationship with your client, it is not accident or luck too. It is because you make the effort to get to know your client, you make the effort to tell your client that you are working in the industry, you make the effort to ask for the sale from your client, you are the one who tells your client about what you do and in the end, you successfully closed the case.

Everything is working perfectly and it is not happened by luck. You are able to do it because you stay in the water long enough that a big fish come over and bite the bait that you keep in the water for some time. This is how it works.

Therefore, if you want to be successful in life, always play the game and keep yourself active by working on it. Never give up and be hard working in making your dreams a reality. You will eventually create a path and somehow ‘get lucky’ and be successful.

Stop Complaining And Blaming If You Want To Be Extraordinary

December 5th, 2011 by Shawn No comments »

I have written a number of articles of successful people and how they built their success out from scratch. And if you are a royal reader of my blog, you will come to notice that some people actually comment saying that those successful people are actually lucky or they have advantages.

Stop Complaining And Start To Take Charge Of Your LifeIt is true that when you think about some facts such as where you are born may be an advantage because you cannot choose where you were born. And indeed that your family background can affect your life and the results you create.

However, your life is in your hands. You are the one that is responsible for your own life. Some people said that they were born into a poor family and this is exactly why they cannot succeed. If you think about it, it is the poverty that drives most people to go out and achieve big wealth. Do not let your surrounding change you, you are the one who should change the environment.

Regardless of what disadvantages you have in your life now, you are the one that is responsible for creating your future. You can be poor or uneducated, but if you let these reasons stop you, you will never be successful. Instead, use these factors as a drive to motivate you to achieve much more. Some people say that Bill Gates is lucky because of this or that, but if the same luck is given to you, do you think you can be as successful as him?

The same goes for every other successful person in the world. They are successful and are able to accomplish so much because they understand that they are the ones who are responsible for their own life and they can and are able to create the future that they want.

You too, can do the same. As long as you are not giving excuses and complaining about life, you will be able to take charge and control your life. Some unfortunate people were born handicapped, in spite of all the disadvantages that they have, they turn those reasons that others look as disadvantages, and go on to create success in their lives.

Look at how Sylvester Stallone is able to change his life and read his story here. If you know his background and how despite all disadvantages, he is still able to breakthrough and produces outstanding results in his life, you will understand that success is something that you can control and are able to achieve. No matter who you are in this world, everyone has the same chance to achieve the success that they desire in their hearts.

Even if you are uneducated or were born in a poor family, it does not really matter. What matters most is how you respond to the event in your life. You can blame and you can continue to give excuses saying that you are uneducated or something. In the end, it is how you look at your life right now that matters most.

There is another great success story that I would like to share with you. She is a lady and her name is Oprah Winfrey. You can also read her success story here in my blog. Once you go through it, I believe you will understand that success is not created by chance or luck, it is the one who desire and put in enough commitment that eventually achieves it.

One thing for sure is that the journey to success is not an easy one. If it is that simple and easy, people will never complain or give lousy excuses why they are unable to achieve it. Therefore, you have to understand that success requires hard work and perspiration. This is why only minority are successful.

So make your decision right now that you want to be in this minority group to accomplish great results and live an extraordinary life. Decide not to give excuses or complain about your life anymore. You can be successful and your future is in your hands.