Are You A Victor, Or A Victim?

You know, to be success, or to be a Millionaire, the mindset is very important. Therefore you need to have the correct mindset of a Millionaire before you can be a Millionaire. Have you ever come across excuses like these?

“I have no money to make money”
“I was born in a poor family”
“I need to support my family”
“I’m too young/old”
“I’m not smart enough”
“I have no opportunities”
“I lack the qualifications”
“I have an unsupportive spouse”
“I don’t have the time”
“I have no luck”
“The economy has been down”

Have you ever come across with all these excuses before? Are you using them often? All the above are nothing but lousy excuses. Why lousy? Because there are a lot of cases which already break all the excuses out there. Take “I was born in a poor family” for example. Do you really think that you are poor so that you can’t make more money? No, in fact many successful people out there are born in a poor family!

Take another example, “I have no money to make money”. This is another lousy excuse that you heard often. Do you really need money to make more money? Again, its a no. Why did I said so? There are lots of free stuff in the internet that can make you rich. Well, maybe you will say you need to invest to promote your business. There are a lot of ways you can promote your business in the internet. And many of the ways are free. So you see, all of these are nothing but lousy excuses. Don’t get influence by people in your surrounding. Most of us are influence by our family, our parents. When you heard your parents telling you that you need money to make more money, you eventually will get influenced by them. All the above are the mindset of a victim.

Trust me, a victor will not think this way. So what they do is they will take all the blame on themselves. They blame themselves when something fail. Know this fact, when you put all the blame on other people, you lose the control power which can improve yourself! Just take my case as an example, if I failed in exam, who are to blame? The lecturers? Because their teachings are not good enough? You see, if I put the blame on lecturers, then I will keep on doing nothing except keep blaming the lecturer. In the end I will still fail my exam. However if I takes all the blame, then I will start studying and strive for a better result. Did you see the different now?

The controlling power is a very powerful leveraging tool that you must use if you want to be a Millionaire. But be sure that you are using the controlling power for the good sake. Don’t just keep on blaming yourself until you feel frustrate, disappointed and give up in the end. This is not what we want. We want to take the responsibility so that we can learn and improve. I’ve got examples of Victor’s Mindset here, you can read it. Remember this :

“Victor Learns, Victim Blames.”

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