In my previous post, you have learned about belief system and what it can do for you in your life. If you miss out that post, you can always read it here, The First Step In Changing Your Belief System.

So once you have gone through that post, you will understand that in order to achieve greater success in your life, you must align your beliefs in such a way that they are empowering in helping you to achieve what you want. If your beliefs are empowering, chances are, it is hard for you to achieve what you want because they do not serve as a motivation force, rather, they will act as negative forces that pull you down.

Therefore, if you want to become a millionaire, if you want to be successful in your life, having a strong belief is the first key that you must have.

The first step in changing your belief, is by associating massive amount of pain to your old limiting belief that you want to change. You have to understand that there are only 2 motivators in your life, pain and pleasure. You will do whatever it takes to avoid pain and to get closer to pleasure.

So if you can associate massive amount of pain to your limiting beliefs, then you will start to change. You must feel deep in your gut that having this limiting belief not only causes you pain in the past and present, but it will also ruin your life in the future. Just like if you believe that you are not talented in managing your wealth because you always lose all the money when you obtain a large amount of money at hands.

You must develop the feeling and keep on thinking that this is not going to be useful to you. If you hold on to this belief, you will never be rich simply because you are going to spend all the money that you have earned. So you have to get rid of this belief. Start by associating pain to it. Tell yourself and feel that by adopting this belief, it is going to pull you down and you will never achieve your goals.

The same thing happen if you believe that you are poor in managing relationship. Maybe you believe that you are not someone romantic, and you decide to change this. First, you must associate this belief you want to get rid off with massive pain. You have to think and feel that this is going to pull down your life. After all, if you do not get rid of this belief, you will never have a girlfriend of your dream…

Once you have associate massive amount of pain to your limiting beliefs, the next step you have to do is this, create doubts. You have to shake the legs of the table in order to collapse it. And the best way you can create doubts is by asking questions. Keep on asking questions like “Do I really don’t have the talent in managing my own wealth?”, “If I’m not good in managing my wealth, how can I still make so much money?”, or “Am I really a romantic-less guy?”, “How many girls or people told me that I’m romantic before?” and “Can I learn to be more romantic in the future?”

Questions like these are going to shake the supportive legs of your belief. Here are 7 even more powerful questions from Anthony Robbins that you might use…

1. How is this belief ridiculous or absurd?
2. Was the person I learned this belief from worth modeling in this area?
3. What will it ultimately cost me emotionally if I don’t let go of this belief?
4.  What will it ultimately cost me in my relationship if I don’t let go of this belief?
5. What will it ultimately cost me physically if I don’t let go of this belief?
6. What will it ultimately cost me financially if I don’t let go of this belief?
7. What will it cost my family/loved ones if I don’t let go of this belief?

Alright, if you have gone through all this, you should have shaken your old limiting beliefs. Now, it is time for the last step. This step is to create and instill the new empowering beliefs into your mind. So how can you do this? Very simple, grab a pen and a paper. Write down all your dis-empowering beliefs that you want to get rid of. Write down all the reasons how they cost you in the past, present and in the future.

Write down every single reasons why you want to get rid of those limiting beliefs. You know that you have to support your perceptions with ‘legs’ if you want to turn your perceptions into beliefs. So this is why you have to write down every single reasons why you want to change.

After that, write down all the empowering beliefs that you are going to adopt. By doing so, you are increasing the chances of getting rid of your limiting beliefs. But this is not effective enough. If you are truly serious, you have to do this, read and review what you have written down everyday before you go to sleep for the next 30 days.

If you follow through all the steps mentioned above, you will be able to change your limiting beliefs into empowering ones. Don’t underestimate all the steps here, they may seem mundane and tedious, but they are very crucial and they are powerful if you follow through…

Remember, your belief system is the most powerful giant resides within you. If you can control this giant, you will be able to take control of your life. You must be the master of your mind, and design your very own destiny. You are the one that is responsible for your own success. The first step to the road of success, is to build a strong empowering belief system that will give positive impact in every area of your life.

Read more, discover how ‘The Miracle Man’ make use of his belief system in Your Beliefs Determine Your Success.

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