5 Super Tips How To Achieve The Success You Want In Life

April 11th, 2010 by Shawn Leave a reply »

Want to achieve the success you desire in life? Read this…

1. Have The Desire To Be Successful

Do you have the desire to be successful? Or do you just wish to be successful? This is one of the keys that separate successful people and ordinary people.

Every successful person has a strong desire to success. They talk about what they want all the time. They dream about the success they want. They walk, drink and even breathe about their dreams. Having a burning desire is the first step to achieving what you want in your life.

Most people are not living a successful life simply because they just don’t have the desire to be successful. Think about it, when you have the desire for something, do you think you will take action to make it happen? Very likely.

And desire usually comes from doing what you love. If you love to play golf, you will develop the desire for it. You will be able to wake up early in the morning just to play golf. You can postpone your appointment for a game of golf. This is what I mean by desire.

2. Feel The Fear And Do It Anyway

One of the most common killers of success is fear. Do you know what fear is? Fear actually stands for False Emotion Appearing Real. What you fear is actually not the real thing, it is the fear that you create in your mind.

Before you go on stage to do a presentation, can you feel the fear? Most people will because of the thoughts they think in their mind. They fear that what if they cannot deliver the presentation perfectly? What if things go wrong? What if people laugh at them?

All the fears that you feel are just within you. In other words, you created the fear in your mind. They are not even real, they are just thoughts. It is your mind that makes them real and hence, you feel the fear.

On the other hand, if you feel confidence and are ready to take on the world, what will you feel? You will feel motivated to deliver the presentation. And guess what, you will end up doing great.

Fear is something that you created in your mind. It never exists, but your mind makes it real. It is just like you know you have to start a business or invest in real estate if you want to be rich, but you fear that you are going to lose your money. Therefore, the fear prevents you from investing or starting a business.

Always remember this, you will have to feel the fear and do it anyway. The best way to overcome fear is preparation. The reason you feel the fear is that you are uncertain about something. For example, if you fear about making a presentation, it is because you are uncertain about the results, you doubt yourself.

However, if you are fully prepared and you have done it hundreds of times, do you think you will still feel the fear? The answer is obvious.

3. Get Leverage

One of my favorite quotes from Anthony Robbins is this, “success leaves clues”. What this mean is that you can actually follow through the path of a successful person, do exactly what he did and you will achieve the same results just like him.

This is why reading and learning are so important if you want to live a successful life. If you want to invest in the stock market but you have no clue how to do it, what should you do?

The answer is simple, invest in books, seminars or workshops to learn how you can invest and profit from the stock market. There are tons and tons of books and seminars out there that are ready to teach you what you want to learn in your life.

You don’t have to spend time finding all the strategies by yourself. You can “copy and paste” the success of others into yourself.

Do you think investing in the stock market is risky? Well, it depends on who you are. If you are nobody and you just started your investment portfolio, it can be risky for you. However, if you are Warren Buffett, do you think it is risky? I seriously don’t think so.

It is the same if you want to climb Mount Everest. Do you think it is risky to climb if you are not prepared? Of course it is. However, if you are a seasoned mountain climber and you have climbed it many times; do you think it is risky now? Well, maybe, but then you will lower the risk a lot more than ordinary people.

Thus, you must get leverage from your knowledge and experience. The best is to learn and read everyday, and in the same time, take action to gain more experience while producing the results you desire.

Remember, you don’t have to bang the wall or crack your head to find out how to be successful; you can just pick up a book from your local bookstore and read it to gain the knowledge.

4. Take Action And Just Do It

If you are not doing anything, you will never be successful and make your dreams come true.

It is not like one day you wake up and you will have a sport car in your garage. It is not like one day you wake up and you will have $1 million in your bank account. I seriously don’t think that money will fall from the sky.

And I don’t believe that there is a magic button or pill that you can press or take to become successful.

But I believe that if you want to be successful, there is a certain price you need to pay. Just like going shopping, if you want to buy something, you need to pay for it.

Don’t just talk about starting a business or investing in real estate, you have to walk your talk. Most people want to be rich, but they never do anything to make themselves rich.

So my advice for you is… take action and just do it!

5. Never Give Up

Never ever give up on your dreams and your goals. Even if you failed after you have tried hard on it, never give up.

Remember, success is not a sprint, it is a marathon. It is a journey, not a destination. It is not the money or the things or the prestige that you get, it is who you become on your road to success.

I truly hope that this article is going to help you in your journey to success in your life. If you read until this point, I sincerely thank you from the bottom of my heart. Let me know what you think about this article by leaving a comment.

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22 comments

  1. ravi says:

    it is really nice, the time what i spent in reading is really really worth to me, keep going and u please never give writing, and i wish u success in ur life,, bai

  2. Tomas says:

    Hi, it’s great motivation to read your articles. Please, keep up your work! Many greetings, TOmas

  3. Shawn says:

    Hey guys, thanks for commenting. You know, your comments are
    my motivation to keep me going in this blog. So keep them
    coming, ^^

  4. Karrie says:

    Its funny that some people think that success can just happen. One of my favorite quotes is “Success–where preparation meets opportunity.” In my life experience, this is completely true. I think though that fear often times limits people in their preparation, for they will think “why bother?” After reading Susan Jeffers book, Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway, I realized that success/happiness/whatever you want can happen to you if you make it a welcoming home.

  5. Wentabz says:

    Thanks a lot for this inspiring sharing and I think its one of the basic steps to take to succeed in life. But what I really need right now is a daily dose of motivational quotes that could keep the desire burning.. Hope you can share some also :)

  6. Shawn says:

    Hi, thanks for leaving your comments.

    Karrie, I’m thinking about buying the book you mention in your comment, Feel The Fear And Do It Anyway, do you think it is a great book?

    Wentabz, I actually think about starting a daily quotes newsletter, do you think many people are going to subscribe to it?

  7. gulotta says:

    hope to set up my ideas – which came to me in my dreams. It woke me up – I wrote them down – then went back to sleep!

    I have mentioned my ideas to other people but they don’t ever seem convinced. It is so deflating. If you haven’t already done so, an article on only you know what you want to achieve and don’t let doubters discourage you, would be a good one for your followers to read about.

    Thanks for the constant encouragement – I hope you gain as much as we do.

    Regards

  8. Zoelhilmi says:

    Winner never quit.

    Good luck :)

  9. Fred says:

    Shawn long time i have not hard from you thanx for this post this is such a great message shawn i have printed all the posts you have sent me i want to help my friends teach them what you have taught me some of them can’t access internet i believe like they have changes my life theirs will to please i enjoy yor post and determined to see change i will not give up

    Thx dear

  10. liza says:

    hi shawn, your article is very interesting. You know it also helps me be motivated with my road to success. Words are just so simple yet its like a sword that penetrates my ineer being to keep me going and focus on my dreams. Great thanks for that! Take care always! God bless u!

  11. alex says:

    hi shawn,

    what a nice article and very inspiring.

    Life is like building a home, you sit with the architect, design the home you wish, and move into the action to build it!,Nothing happens until something moves!

    waiting fo your next post!, GOD BLESS

  12. okey says:

    Shawn,You are always hot.You are right and thank you.

  13. Shawn says:

    Hey man, thanks a lot.. ^^

  14. Onyeka says:

    I like this U post Shawn, bcos we all running same race to Top. So keep it up shamn. Thx Shawn and God bless U.

  15. warsame says:

    Thank you for your time and energy you put into this useful site,it was most true what you presented in it and am trying to take all your advises seriously to adapt.

    The key important issue in achieving what everyone of us is longing or aiming is to have strong self believe, determination and to be brave enought to face any thing encounter along the road while he or she is on the journey to success.

    I wish every one of you who read my response a BIG success and happiness. THANK YOU. WE ALL POSSES BUT WE DO NOT REALISE.

  16. Hiral says:

    Hey there! Excellent post. You have indeed inspired many with the simple words above.

  17. rahul says:

    its really awesome… thankq!!

  18. F*ckin’ awesome things here. I’m very glad to see your article. Thanks a lot and i am looking forward to contact you. Will you please drop me a e-mail?

  19. mona says:

    thanks for your great article :)

  20. Jayant says:

    This post is one of the greatest I have ever seen. I am damn sure that whoever read this must have got inspired. Excellent stuff………Please keep posting your thoughts……

  21. prasannaa says:

    thank u ,it really inspired me,good luck

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