I know that you want to be successful, but what success really means to you? What do you really want anyway? Do you want to have big cars, fast cars, plenty of money that you can spend without thinking how much it is going to cost you? Do you want to have respect from your children, you want to have great relationship with your love one, your family and so on? Do you want to travel all across the world and visit the most exotic places and visit the most isolated island in the world?
No matter what you want in the world today, maybe you should ask yourself this question first before you start your journey to achieving them, “Why Do I Want These Things?” Will it change your life? Why do you want to drive fast, big and luxury car anyway? Isn’t it because it can give you the thrilling feeling and owning a big car simply means you’re rich and you’ve a lot of money? Isn’t it because being rich will give you all the power and respect you want? Isn’t that becoming a millionaire simply shows that you are someone who accomplished a lot in your life and it is the feeling of accomplishment and prestige that you are pursuing?
Why do you want to have a great family life? Is it because you think that it will give you the feeling of intimacy, love, warmth or connection? Why do you want to save the world and make the world a better place? Is it because it can give you the feeling of contribution and making a difference?
In conclusion, what all this really means is that what you want to achieve in your life is the feeling deep inside you. If you want to be rich, why do you want to be rich? Is it because you want others to have the feeling of respect and you want to have the feeling of accomplishment in your life? Therefore, what you are pursuing in your life is feeling.
It is the feeling that deep inside you that drives you into taking massive amount of action to make your dreams come true. And you take so many actions to accomplish what you want in your life is also because you want to satisfy the feeling deep inside you. That means, in order to achieve what you really want in your life, you must first understand the feeling deep in you, what you really want to achieve…?
There are basically only 2 factors that will affect your feeling. They are:
- Your physiology, and
- Your focus.
Here are my 2 posts that you may want to read:
1. How to Use Your Physiology to Drive You into Action
2. How to Focus Yourself Toward Success
By going through the 2 posts above, you will be able to direct your feeling to the right state whenever you want to. Like what I mentioned above, achieving success is about the achievement of the right feeling. You want to lose weight because you want to have the slim feeling, you want people to envy your body, and you want others to praise that you have a great body. All of these are the feelings that you are looking for.
The key here is to shift yourself into an empowering feeling, an empowering state that will keep you going. You don’t want to get distracted or dis-empowered by the negative feelings and state. This is why motivation is so important in your road to success.
I hope you’ll grab the big picture and learn how to shift your state by going through all the posts here. If you want to be successful today, learn how to keep yourself hot so that you will keep on taking massive of action. This is the reason successful people are successful.
If you want to succeed in your life, you must learn how to make use of the power of focus. Many people don’t seem to understand how it works. When you are down or when you are feeling depress, you can change your state of depression into an empowering state by simply changing your focus.
