Archive for June, 2008

Why You Need to Set Goals Today

June 4th, 2008

If there is one thing that makes successful people succeed, it is this, goal setting. You have to know how goals can help you in achieving what you want. In fact, goals will not only get you what you want, it is going to determine the direction of your life. If you don’t have a goal today, you are going to be just like everybody else, don’t know what to do, you are following the crowd, and life seems like meaningless.

If you are experiencing this today, it is because that you don’t have a clear goal. Did you know that without a goal to focus on, everything you do everyday is not going to bring you to the long-term direction? It is not going to bring you any achievements. (The Power of Designing Your Destiny)

Without direction, we will be caught up with short term outcomes like paying the bills, watching TV, going shopping, trying out the newest restaurant, avoiding problems or simply making it through one hectic week after another. Like rats on a treadmill. We will tend to be caught up in a stressed and monotonous existence instead of designing a destiny and truly living.

Your Mind Is Constantly Pursuing Something

The human mind is always pursing some kind of goal, however feeble. If we don’t focus our mind on long term goals that lead us to success, our minds will tend to focus on short term and small goals that serve only t0 distract us and waste our time. That is why, if you don’t have a clear goal today, you are not giving your mind any orders to follow.

And in the end, you are going to reach nowhere because your mind will follow everything and getting affected by your surrounding. Just like what Adam Khoo often used the metaphor of river for life…

We are all in our boats moving down this raging river which splits into many tributaries downstream, representing the many outcomes. Which tributary we take will determine where we end up.

When we are clear which stream we want to take, we will begin rowing in that direction. Now, along the way, there are definitely going to be currents that pull us in different directions.

There are going to be rocks and rapids that block our path. But if we stay focused on where we want to go, we will just keep rowing steadfastly, re-directing our boat until we get to our destination.

However, if we go through life without any clear idea of where we are going and where we want to end up, we will just row our boats aimlessly. We will just allow the currents and the rocks to move us in all directions.

This is what happens to most people. They end up going down a stream that they don’t want to be in. When they finally realize that it is not an outcome they want, they start paddling hard to avoid it. By this time, for many, it will be too late.

They go over the rapids (disaster) or finish up in a dead-end mill pond. They end up feeling frustrated, disillusioned and unfulfilled in the many different areas of their life.

Can you see it now, if you don’t have a clear goal, you are going to be dragged by the current of life, and you will end up reaching anywhere. I believe that you don’t want to be one of these people right? That is why you have to set goals from today. (3 Action Keys Toward Your Goals)

Don’t Worry About The Strategies, Just Plan It

Some people may say that they don’t know how to achieve it even if they set clear goals like how to make money online. I’m here to say, don’t worry, just set your goals, and strategies will come by. Often, successful people too, do not know how they can achieve their goals, they just set them. Once they have the goals, their mind will tell them what they should do in order to achieve their goals.

This is because once you have a clear focus in your mind, you are going to tap into the fullest potential, your mind will be opened to every possibilities to come up with something to achieve your goals. However, if you don’t have clear goals, your mind will focus in anything which come across, and that is why most people will be struggling in river of life.

If you want to be different today, you must start telling your mind what you want to achieve in your life, you have to set clear goals. So the first thing before you off today, ask yourself, do you have clear goals? What do you want to achieve? Find out the answers for these questions before you sleep today. Read, 4 Steps to Achieve Anything You Want In Life.

4 Steps to Achieve Anything You Want in Life

June 1st, 2008

Do you believe that actually there is a formula that you can apply in your life to achieve anything you want? Well, there is actually, just like The Ultimate Success Formula. For me, this formula is truly the formula that you have to follow if you truly desire to achieve the things you want in your life.

The first time I came across this formula is in a book called Master Your Mind, Design Your Destiny by Adam Khoo, again. Like I said, Adam is my success and wealth coach. I bought quite a lot of his books. So today, I’m going to show you again, how by using The Ultimate Success Formula, you can achieve anything you want in life.

To make things simple, I have broken them down into 4 simple steps so that you can follow them easily. So now, what you need to do in order to achieve whatever goals you want in life, is to read this article, and apply all the steps and strategies into your life. Don’t worry and don’t doubt about it. It has been proven that it works, ONLY if you follow through and take any necessary steps. If you don’t, you will not achieve your goals even if it is just there for you.

The Ultimate Success Formula

As you can see now, success really lies within your hands. No one can stop you if you insist and committed with it. However, if you don’t want to take any necessary actions, no one can force you too. Know this, you are the one that is responsible for your own success. So don’t blame others if you haven’t achieved your goals today. So let us move on to the first step…

The First Step – Create A Powerful Belief System

Before you can achieve anything you want in your life, ask yourself this question, “Do you believe that you can achieve it?” The is the most fundamental principle that is going to determine your success. If you don’t believe that you can achieve your goals, you WILL NOT ACHIEVE IT even though you take a lot of actions. Why is this so? This is because your mind will operate from a different frame. Whenever you don’t believe in something, your mind will close the possibilities that it would happen. When this happens, do you think you can achieve what you want? Impossible.

Therefore, the first thing before you start to achieve anything you always wanted, is to believe that you can achieve it. The moment you start to believe that something is true, your mind will tell you that it is real and you can do it. Just like if a beggar told you that he owns a BMW, will you believe it? No, because he shows it to your mind that he is a beggar, and your mind will tell you that a beggar will not own a BMW. So you don’t believe it, until he drove it to you, only when that happens, it breaks your old belief and your mind will re frame again. Your Beliefs Determine Your Success.

So you can see now, your belief is never real. It is real to you only if you think that it is real. For example, when the economy is down, one person may say that it is the best time to invest, while the other may say that it is the baddest time to invest. Same situation, different beliefs will yield different results. Since that what you believe is never real, it is real only to you, why don’t that you believe in something that can empower you, drive you to your dreams and goals? Right?

Second Step – Goal Setting, Find Out What You Really Want In Life

Many people do not know what they want in their life. All they do is that they will follow the majority. A lot of my friends told me that they are going to work, and they feel boring about working. Even though they know that they hate to work, but they never really care about it, they said that THIS IS LIFE. Can you imagine that? They told me that working from 9 to 5 is a must in life, there is no way to avoid that, because that is life.

This is what is going to happen if you don’t have a clear goal today. You have to really figure out what you want in your life, don’t follow what others are doing, you are going to end up just like them. So, after you have built up a strong belief system within your mind, the next thing you need to do is to set goals. Don’t worry if you don’t know how to set goals, I have a lot of goal setting articles for you in my blog.

If you read all the above articles, I believe that goal setting will be just like drinking water for you. Don’t be afraid to set higher, crazy goals, actually it is these ‘crazy’ goals that will stretch you to achieve amazing results.

Third Step – Design Your Destiny, Develop a Guaranteed Strategy to Achieve Your Goals

The third step is this, you have to know how you are going to achieve it. Don’t worry though, some people may say, “I want to make money online, without having to work for another day”, trust me, if you have gone through the first two steps, when you reach this third step, your mind will be VERY CLEAR of how you are going to achieve what you want.

Now, even if you use the wrong strategies, crafted the wrong blueprint, it does not really matter. This is because it is these feedback that is going to take you to using the right strategies. Yes, you have to fail (not to say fail, treat it as feedback) a lot of times before you can achieve your goals. There is a very famous saying, ‘If you fail to plan, you plan to fail‘. Very true, if you don’t have a strategy to achieve what you want in your life today, you are just going to dream about your goals. So stop day dreaming and make your dreams come true.

Many successful people do not know what are the best strategies to achieve the things that they want, they just know that if they have a strong desire, it is like somehow a plan will appear to them. The same goes for you, just write down any strategies that you can think of, and start putting in effort. You will come across the right strategies in your way.

Final Step – Nothing Is Going To Happen Without It, Action

Too many people are not committed to their goals. They just have a ‘wish’, or a ‘prefer’ to achieve what they want. Believe me, 90% of people cannot achieve what they want because it is not a ‘must’ for them. Whenever something becomes a must for you, you are going to take whatever it needs to achieve it. Once you have the commitment, you will take action. Your Fuel to Success, Commitment.

Success will not fall from the sky, money will not drop into your pocket automatically. It is not like one day you wake up and there is a BMW in your garage. It is not like when you wake up you lost 5kg and you live in a villa. All of the things around you happen because of your action. Without action, nothing will ever happen.

If you can see it here, it will be useless even though you have gone through the first 3 steps, but you did not take any action in the end. So always remember this, keep this phrase in your mind, nothing will ever happen if you never take any action. Everything happens because of something. Even if you choose to do nothing, that ‘do nothing’ will become your action.

So these are the 4 steps to achieve anything you want in life. If you follow through from step 1 to the final step, you should start taking action right now. Start to find the answer to all the questions in your mind, start to look for what you want in your life, set you goals, plan your strategies and finally, take massive of action.

There is another thing I want to tell you, it is something that you hate to hear. However I still decide to tell you. To achieve what you want is not an easy task, you will come across a lot of obstacles that will stop you in your way. But if you overcome them, you will eventually reach your goals, and the ultimate success is waiting for you there. I strongly recommend you to download The Nine Millionaire Habits from Adam Khoo if you are serious in achieving success.