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The Millionaire Habit #5

May 17th, 2008

The most common question that people ask about getting rich is, “what is the best career or business that will make me the money money?” Is it going to be education? Food? Insurance? Network marketing? Health care? Option trading? Property? What is the best industry to be in right now?

Well, you will find that in ANY industry, there will be a minority who will be making plenty of money, while the majority will be struggling to survive. This is the teachings that you will find in Adam Khoo’s Secrets of Self-Made Millionaires book. It is a great book that I STRONGLY recommend you to steal it.

The answer for the question above is that you can become a millionaire in any industry, only if you are one of the best! If you are not one of the best, you will never become rich in any industry. You can become a millionaire in insurance, property, options trading, education, retail, food or internet marketing ONLY when you are one of the best!

So how to become the best in your industry? The answer will be by being 100 percent, absolutely committed towards our particular business or career. Know this fact, people become the best at what they do only because they eat, sleep, breathe, talk and think their business eighteen hours a day, sometimes they even dream about it. Your Fuel To Success, Commitment.

Therefore, this habit, millionaire habit #5, is…

Do What You Love

All successful individuals have one thing in common. They love what they do. And because they have such an intense passion for their particular career or business, they do not distinguish work from play. To them, their work is their play, and vice versa. As a result, they spend every single day and every waking hour working, which for them, it is playing and enjoying.

That is the number one reason that makes them the best in their industry. This is why they are their market leaders, they are the experts, and this is the reason they can make tons of money in their industry. Every successful millionaire has a love and obsession for what they do.

Some Real Life Examples For You

Tiger Woods is the best golfer in the world because he is obsessed with golf. It is his intense passion for the game that gets him to hit hundreds of balls under the hot sun every single day until he gets it perfect! It is his passion that gets him to continue competing in tournaments despite already having amassed a personal fortune of $575 million. It is not the money that motivates him. It has always been the love for the game and the love of competing.

Similarly, have you ever wondered why Bill Gates, the richest man in the world who is worth $46 billion still works 18-hour days(I know now he had retired)? Why doesn’t he just sit back and relax on the beach? The reason is because like all millionaires, what drives him is never really the money, it is the love of being at the forefront of technology. It was his obsession of ‘putting a computer in every home running Microsoft software’ that made him the best in the field. Read The 11 Principles From Bill Gates.

What about others? Donald Trump loves doing deals, Michael Jordan loves basketball and Steven Spielberg loves making movies. If you read their biographies, you will find that none of them got into their industries because they thought it was lucrative. They got in because it was what they loved to do!

They love to do it so much that they would even do it for free. This is why although they never have to work for money ever again, they keep working harder and harder. It is because it was never work in the first place. Unless you do what you love, you will never be rich.

If you find that you lack the motivation and discipline to become successful in what you do, the reason is obvious. It is not your passion! Think about it. Do you have a natural passion for something? Do you have a hobby? Like playing golf? Playing with children? Did you ever noticed that by doing what you love, the energy never stop flowing? Even if you are tired, but you will always find energy to do what you love.

This is the secret that will bring you unlimited wealth! Whenever you do something that you love, you will be naturally focused, committed and energized to work at it. When you give your best to whatever you are crazy about, you will become the best!

So you see, many people thought that they have to work so hard in life in order to become rich. They got to force themselves to be motivated. They believe that when they eventually make enough money, they can finally do what they love and enjoy their lives.

Work Hard —> Make Enough Money —> Do What I Love

If you follow the path above, it is going to guarantee that you will struggle in stress and misery in your life. When you do something purely for money instead of passion, you will find it very difficult to stay motivated. As a result, you will burn out and give up sooner than you can think of.

Instead, you must do what you love to do now. Not only will you begin to enjoy your life and be happy but you will suddenly find the natural energy and motivation that will drive you to give your best and become the best. When this happens, the money will automatically follow.

Do What I Love —> Make Money —> Continue To Do What I Love

So how can you tell if you are doing something that you love to do? Don’t worry, just go through and find the answers for these questions below, you will find out what you actually love.

  • “What do I love to do? What would I do even if I didn’t get paid?”
  • “If I had all the money in the world, how would I spend my time?”
  • “Who are the people who have made their fortunes around this passion I have?”

Remember, do what you love and you will never work for another day in your life! No matter what industry you are in, there must be a minority who is the best in it. So look for them, then model and learn from them. These millionaire habits are brought to you by Adam Khoo’s Secrets of Self-Made Millionaires.

==> You can straight away download the complete version of The Nine Millionaire Habits here in PDF, without having to go all over my articles.

The Millionaire Habit #4

May 14th, 2008

This, for me, is a very important habit that you must have if you want to be a millionaire. From the book that Adam Khoo wrote, Secrets of Self-Made Millionaires, he mentioned that if you want to be a millionaire, you have to prevent this habit, instant gratification. Therefore, what you need is this…

Delayed Gratification

Instant gratification is the habit of always wanting to enjoy now and not having the patience to wait for future benefits. As a result, these people who adopt this instant gratification habit, will spend a lot more than they invest. By spending on that new car, new wide screen television set, or designer watch, they get instant gratification.

When it come to investing in books, seminars, stocks, or insurance products, they will think twice as they have to wait for future benefits. It is precisely for this reason that whatever money comes into their hands will soon be frittered away and not multiplied. (Tips, learn and Make Use of Piggy Banks)

People who want instant gratification will always look for quick and easy ways of making money rather than building a sustainable business that adds value to customers. They tend to cut corners on quality add deliver shoddy products to save money and boost short term profits. So I hope that you will learn this lesson today, that is to learn how to delay your gratification.

At the same time, those who desire instant gratification lack the patience to allow their money to grow and compound through investing. When they don’t see huge sums of money in a few weeks, they abandon their investments and never get to reap the benefits. They have no patience to wait for the seeds they sow to grow into huge money trees that bear fruit.

Well basically, there are only two ways you can use your money. You can either spend your money, or you invest it somewhere. For example, if you spend $1,000, you get instant gratification from whatever you have bought. However, you have to remember that your $1,000 is gone. It is the same if you spend $100, or even $10. When you spend it, it is gone, you get zero return.

When you invest that $1,000 in a seminar, books, or stock, it will grow into $1,200, $2,000, maybe even $10,000, depending on your rate of return. People with delayed gratification invest a lot more than they spend. Again, they know that by spending a dollar, they may feel good for an instant, but their future wealth will be destroyed.

So, do think twice whenever you want to buy something that is going to make you feel instant gratification. Instead, go ahead and use that money and invest in books or seminars that are going to make you a fortune.

Know this, self-made millionaires never take shortcuts in business. They look at always giving the best value to their customers, even if it means earning less at present. They know that by building their reputation, it will lead to huge profit streams in the future.

Real Life Example of Delayed Gratification

I’m going to tell you about how Adam Khoo learn to delay gratification, and make him a millionaire at the age of 26! When Adam was in the college and university, most of his friends spent their holidays partying and having fun. They experienced instant gratification. For Adam, instead of partying, he spent all his holidays taking up speaking engagements to hone his presentation skills, reading investment books, analyzing company reports and writing chapters of his books.

He knew that by ‘sacrificing’ this immediate enjoyment, the rewards in the future would be tremendous! Sure enough, by the time he graduated from university, he had streams of positive incomes from his best-selling books and his 2 businesses which he had set up. Adam was earning more money than his lecturers while many of his friends were struggling to get their first job with their first paycheck.

So can you see it now? If you want to be a millionaire, you must first learn how to invest your money instead of spending them. The moment when you want to spend something, just think twice and ask yourself whether that thing that you are going to buy will make you money in the future. This is how many self-made millionaires made build their money.

Do you think that the world’s greatest investor, Warren Buffet knows about this habit? You bet, if he doesn’t have this habit, I dare say that he won’t be as rich as today. Learn How To Save If You Want To Be A Millionaire.

==> You can straight away download the complete version of The Nine Millionaire Habits here in PDF, without having to go all over my articles.

The Millionaire Habit #3

May 13th, 2008

This is going to be the third millionaire habit that you need to adopt if you want to be a millionaire. I believe that you know about this habit a lot. It is…

Take 100% Responsibility

I’m just going to be brief about this, because in the past, I have posted quite a lot of this millionaire habit. For instance, you can read about my 12 Keys to Success, in the key #3, I mentioned about how responsible can bring you success. It is the same here, you have to be 100% responsible to achieve the wealth you always desire about.

Unfortunately, most people choose to adopt the victim’s mindset of giving excuses, blaming and complaining. Remember when you give excuses to yourself or blame others for your lack of wealth, then you are putting others and external events in control of your life!

When you are not in control, you do not have the power to change your circumstances. Instead, millionaires take 100% responsibility for their wealth. They believe that they alone create their wealth through their strategies and actions. As a result, they know that they have the power to change their wealth by changing their strategies and actions.

It is only when you live by this habit will you have the power to exponentially multiply your income and wealth. I mean, think about it, if you are selling traveling guides, and when the economy is down, will you blame the economy for bringing your business down? If yes, then you will be in the victim’s mindset, you put yourself in a powerless situation where there is nothing you can do.

Did you still remember how Richard Branson made his fortune by adopting the winner’s mindset? If you don’t, you can read about it here, The Millionaire Habit #2. Branson put himself in the winner’s mindset, and he turned what other sees as problems into money making opportunity.

If you truly want to be a millionaire, this is what you need! Take back the example from above, when the economy is down, and you are in the travel industry, what can you do to make your business grow? Well, there are quite a lot of strategies you can use. For example, you can expand your business by going internationally, or maybe you can take it as an opportunity, by saying that it is the greatest time to test your business and strengthen its foundation, and when the economy picks up, your business will bloom!

Can you see the difference between taking 100% responsibility and blaming others or putting the responsibility away now? If you say that it is under your responsible, you will not even care about it, and your mind will shut of any creativity juices it produces.

Before, I have posted about The Winner’s Mindset, you can read it, it is an interesting post. This will be it, the third millionaire habit.

==> You can straight away download the complete version of The Nine Millionaire Habits here in PDF, without having to go all over my articles.

My FeedBurner Count Doubled!

May 12th, 2008

Yesterday I logged in to my FeedBurner account, and I found out that my FeedBurner count was doubled! I was shocked the first time I looked at the number. I said, “Wow, since when so many people subscribed to my blog’s feed?” Frankly, I’m so happy when I saw that number.

Here is the screen shot…

FeedBurner Count

 

 

If you notice from the picture above, you will see that my FeedBurner count doubled in the Thursday. Why is that so? Actually, I’m not sure as well. But what I can say is this, it is maybe due to some factors. I’m not sure that they are the main factors, but they definitely has something to do with this increased. They are…

Quality Content

This is one of the reasons I guess. Maybe this is definitely the reason. Well, actually over the last few months, I’m just concentrating in building quality content for my blog. If you are looking for motivational tips, way to succeed, how to make money, then you have come to the right place.

I keep on focus my energy in building quality post. That is why if you are a subscribers of my blog, I believe that you will receive an email from this blog every single day. I tried to come up with a content post every day. I’m not going to monetize my blog or putting up ads for now. What I want to do now is to build my blog, not profits from my blog.

Just like what Yaro Starak has to say, he spent 6 months focus in writing quality content which people are looking for. After that 6 months of hard work, his effort pays off. He got all the readers he wanted, he has all the credibility, he builds a great blog filled with full of quality content. Now he is reaping money from his blog.

So the first thing to do with your blog is, building it, by providing something that your market is looking for. If you need more information on how to build a successful blog, be sure to read this post of mine, 5 Super Tips to Build a Successful Blog.

Market Your Blog

The other reason I can think of is this, market my blog. Well, over the last few weeks, I’m so lazy and I did not do any marketing for my blog, even for social networking sites, I did not do anything. After that, I decide to get back into marketing my blog, and the strategy that I used this via StumbleUpon.

If you need to know how you can drive massive amount of traffic using StumbleUpon, just read my post, How StumbleUpon Can Brings You Tons of Traffic. Yes, marketing your blog is what you need to do. You don’t want to waste your effort of building up great content, but you have nobody there to read it right?

If you want people to know about your blog, you will first need to tell them that you have a blog, am I right? I mean, this is a common sense. You have to somehow do all the marketing works when you just started out. After you have established a certain level of credibility, trust and readership, people will somehow do the marketing for you.

However, you and I both start from the ground. So you will have to do all these works from the very beginning. Therefore, start doing the marketing work for your blog. It is your blog, nobody will do this for you.

Don’t Show Your FeedBurner Count If It Is Less Than 100

This is what I have learned from JohnChow. He said that if your FeedBurner count is less than 100, then don’t show it. People somehow follow the majority. Meaning to say, when people see that you have a huge number of subscribers, they will think that your blog is a great blog, and that is why so many people are subscribing to your blog.

What they will do is, they will be the ‘sheep’ and subscribe to your blog post. Now, can you imagine what is going to happen if your FeedBurner count is low? It makes people don’t want to subscribe. In the beginning, it may seem that everything is difficult, but once you have broke the first level, the path of advancing to the next level will be easier.

If you want to know more about how you can increase your readership, then read this post, 5 Sure Fire Ways to Build Your Blog’s Readership.

The Millionaire Habit #2

May 11th, 2008

All of the millionaires out there, they have one set of habit that makes them rich, makes them a millionaire. And in this book, Secrets of Self-Made Millionaires, Adam Khoo, my favorite wealth teacher, explain the millionaire habit that you need to adopt in order to be a millionaire.

I strongly recommend you to grab this book, for me, it is the best wealth book that I have ever read. Before this I have also posted about millionaire habit #1, always exceed expectations. Now, as for the second millionaire habit that you need, is this…

Be Proactive

Yes, if you want to be rich, if you want to be a millionaire, you have to be proactive. People who are proactive are those that make things happen. While those who adopt the reactive mindset, they wait for things to happen. When the economy is down, proactive people will not sit still, they will go and look for opportunity, instead of waiting for opportunity to come to them.

You have to be proactive if you want to be a millionaire. Have you ever attended any seminars, and they want you to break the ice by introduce yourself to others? Are you the one that just going to stand there and wait for people to come to you? Or you are the one that goes to people and introduce yourself to them?

If you have been in this kind of situation before, you will know. Here, people can be classified into 2 groups. The first group are those that who adopt the reactive mindset. They wait for people to approach them, and they react toward other people’s action. These people won’t have much control in their life.

Because for them, when there is no opportunity for them, they will just wait for opportunity to come, just like waiting for money to fall from the sky. They are characteristic of people who complain about everything that is happening around them and hope that something will change. When reactive people face problems, they will just wait for others to come and solve their problem.

While the other group of people is those who adopt the proactive mindset. They are the ones that make things happen. They will go and introduce themselves to others. When there are no opportunities around, they won’t sit still, they will go out there and look for opportunity. If needed, they will even create the opportunity for themselves. These are the people that adopt the millionaire habit, proactive.

Let me give you a real-life example of how, by adopting the millionaire habit of proactive, can make a person rich. This guy is called Richard Branson, you probably have heard of him. He is the chairman and founder of the Virgin Group.

The One That Make Things Happen

Well, just imagine that if you had to take an important early morning flight to New York but due to unforeseen circumstances, the flight got canceled and you are stranded at the airport with a hundred other passengers. There is no other flight out that day. What do you think you will do and how would you feel? Are you going to…

  1. Just wait for news of the next flight out
  2. Lodge a complaint with the authorities
  3. Hang around with other stranded passengers and complain together

Most people will think of this kind of situation as ‘problem’, and they can’t do much about it. You see, if you think of it as a problem, you will out of the power to control the situation. This is the same exact situation that happened to Richard Branson in 1980. He and his wife were stranded when the local Puerto Rican flight got canceled. There were no other flights out that day. (Remember, you always have a choice in your life.)

Richard Branson

Instead of seeing it as a ‘problem’, Branson‘s millionaire mindset got him to see it as opportunity. As a result, he took a very different set of actions. What he did is this. He got on the phone to a few aircraft charter companies and managed to charter a private plane for $2,000. Knowing that there were many stranded passengers who needed to catch a flight out badly, he borrowed a blackboard and wrote ‘Virgin Airways $39 Single Flight to Puerto Rico‘.

Within hour of walking through the airport terminal, he had sold every single seat! After successfully flying everyone back and making a cool profit, he mulled over what one happy passenger had casually said, “Virgin Airways isn’t too bad, smarten up the service a little and you will be in business”.

And the rest is history. The amazing thing about Branson was that he did not use any of his money to solve his ‘problem’. He used his millionaire mindset, think and turn a problem into opportunity. I believe that this is a very clear example of what exactly being proactive is all about. Yes, Everything Starts From Your Mind.

By having the proactive mindset, you will somehow put yourself in the position of power and choice. You are in control and you are in command of your life. You will eventually take actions that lead to your wealth and success. However, if you act in a reactive mindset, you will never find your way to riches, because you are not in controlling of your wealth, your finances will never be within your control.

==> You can straight away download the complete version of The Nine Millionaire Habits here in PDF, without having to go all over my articles.

The Millionaire Habit #1

May 10th, 2008

Secrets of Self-Made Millionaires, for me, is one of the best wealth books that you MUST HAVE if you want to become a self-made millionaire. This book is written by Adam Khoo, a young, Singapore self-made millionaire at the age of 26. What he taught in this book is much more than you can expect.

For me, Adam is a real value creator. If you ever read this book before, you will understand what I mean. In his book, Secrets of Self-Made Millionaires, he taught about the millionaire mindset. For you to achieve massive amount of wealth, you will first have to adopt the million-dollar mindset.

So, the first millionaire habit, will be this…

Always Exceed Expectations

Overall, people can be categorized into 3 groups. The first group is those who adopt the habit of doing less than what is expected. Their patterns are reflected in the fact that they probably do less than what people can expect. When you ask them why, they usually will give you a lot of excuses like “I could not think of more” or “I just don’t have the time to do all these”.

Because of this thinking and habit, this kind of people will not add any value for their business and their company. In fact, they tend to reduce the value their company creates. These are the group of people when you ask them to do ABCD, they will only end up doing just A and B.

While in working, although they are paid $1,000 for their work, but they only create $800 in value. They are the liabilities of their company. So do you think that the company will give this group of people a salary raise? Hardly.

The next group of people is those who adopt the habit of doing exactly as expected. The majority of us fall under this category. This group of people will obediently do exactly as told, if you ask them to do ABCD, they will do exactly just like what you have told them to do.

They are responsible people who get the job done, nothing more nothing less. They clock in at nine in the morning and knock off exactly at six in the evening. If they are given the task to hit $10,000 sales, they will do exactly that, they will hit $10,000, and no more.

So, are this group of people consider the asset or the liability of their company? They are the low-return investment for their company. By paying them $1,000 per month, they will create $1,1,000 value or so, make their company get a small amount of return on their business.

Will these people get a pay raise? Of course, because they are responsible people, they will get a pay raise. However, this group of people will only be promoted up to a certain point. They will eventually hit the ceiling. This ceiling is normally that of a manager, because they can only take orders and get things done.

Meet The Real Value Creators

The last group of people is the real value creators, they always do more than expected. If you are in this group, it is not something that you were born with, it has nothing to do with your academic results, but it is a habit of choice that anyone can adopt. Value creators have the habit of doing a lot more than expected. If they are paid $1,000, they will work as if they are being paid $10,000.

They are the real, high-return investment for their company. It is through their efforts, that the company make more and more profits every year. As a result, they will often get a pay raise, bonuses and stock options. The company knows that for every dollar they invest in them, they will return triple the value. Your Value Determines Your Income.

In the past, income was based mainly on seniority and loyalty. The longer you stayed, the more you were valued. However, this is totally different in today’s world. The amount of income you get is fully depends on the amount of value you create. That is why we have examples of people who are younger, with a lot less experience directing business, but they are earning a lot more than senior workers.

The real value creators are usually being head hunted by other companies. So, the first unbreakable habit of wealth is to do a lot more than expected. This habit does not just apply to employees, it applies to anyone! Here is the real-life example of value creator:

When Michael Jordan was interviewed and asked how he became the world’s greatest basketball player, he replied, “I expect more from myself than anyone would ever expect from me! When my coach expects me to train 3 times a week, I would train 5 times. When my coach expects me to score 15 points for each game, I would score 36 points! That is why I am the best in the world!”

If you are doing just as expected, you will soon out of business! In today’s business world, the competition is high, and if you want to make your business stand in front of others, you will have to do a lot more than expected. If you start a retail store today, you are competing with hundreds of others, both locally and internationally!

Today, if you perform below your customer’s expectation, you will soon out of business. Simply because they have many other choices, and others can provide the same service or products just like yours, maybe even better! Many business owner struggle because they offer exactly the same value as every other business in their industry.

The answer to create massive wealth today is to exceed our customer’s expectation. You have to create more value for your customers. Create More Value and Money Will Follow.

I hope that this post is going to help you both in your life and your business. No matter you are doing your online business, or offline business, always exceed expectations, and you will find your wealth doubling in a rapid rate.

==> You can straight away download the complete version of The Nine Millionaire Habits here in PDF, without having to go all over my articles.

Why Nobody Reads Your Blog

May 9th, 2008

Have you ever wondered why some of the blogs out there are so popular and they have all the traffic they want? What about your blog? Do people come to your blog and read what you write?

Some of the blogs out there are having 10,000 unique visitors each day, some only have 10 visitors. Where your blog comes in? Think about it, you try to write something interesting, you spent a few days writing great articles which you thought that your visitors may like to read.

However, you end up getting nobody to read your blog. Why is this so? Well, before you can start driving tons of traffic to your blog, before you learn how to do it, you must understand this one thing about traffic…

Accept The Fact That You Have To Work For Traffic

Yes, this is the first thing you will need to accept. Know this, you have to spend time, take action to bring traffic to your blog. You have to tell people to visit your blog. Remember, this is your blog, nobody will help you in doing this. If they can help you increase your traffic, why don’t they do it for their blogs? Am I right? And don’t make The Biggest Traffic Mistake in your blog.

So, first thing first, learn the truth that you have to work to get traffic. Many bloggers out there did not notice that marketing their blog is one of the most important factors that will determine the success of their blog. Quality content is one thing, but traffic is different, you have to work hard for it.

You are the owner of your blog, you are the marketer of your blog, you have to do the boss’s job, you have to be the marketer’s job, and you will also work as a writer for your blog, you basically do everything for you blog. Unless you are very rich and you can hire people to do all these for you, you will have to do all these yourself, because this is your OWN BUSINESS.

We Start From The Ground

You got it, we both have to start from the ground. We don’t have something special or lucky that makes our life easier. Let me show you what I mean here. This is a small portion that I grab from Yaro Starak‘s newsletter:

Guy Kawasaki started blogging and a few weeks after launching he had over 4000 daily readers. Guy is a famous author and business speaker so he had the benefit of lots of other bloggers and media spreading the word for him. Chances are you don’t have this advantage. I didn’t, I had to earn my traffic the hard way.

You are not any famous celebrity, if you are Britney Spears, I think you will get 100,000 daily readers once you published your blog. But the fact here is that you are not. You and I both start from the ground. We have to work hard to get traffic and to make our blog a success.

Most of the bloggers failed because they don’t know how to market their blog. Not because that they don’t know how to produce quality content, but they don’t know how to get their blogs expose to their market.

Make Your Blog Worth Reading

Ask yourself this question, is your blog worth reading? You have to always think from the perspective of your readers. The NUMBER ONE reason people read your blog is because of your content. Just think of your blog as a magazine. Would you buy a magazine that don’t have any quality content?

So the first thing you have to do to attract visitors is to fill your blog with quality content. Once you have the content, you can then start marketing your blog. If you don’t know where to start, I recommend you to read The Ingredients of Success For Bloggers, and you can also read my series posts on Ultimate Blogging Tips.

How to Think Out of The Box by Setting Stretch Goals

May 6th, 2008

Well, everyone sets goal, you know that without goals, it is impossible for us to achieve what we want, simply because success rarely happens by luck. Success happens purely from designing, I have already shown you so many real-life examples, over and over again, how having a clear goal can bring you what you want. Read this, The Power of Designing Your Destiny.

How Stretch Goals Force You to Think Out of The Box

If you want to set a goal today, you MUST set a stretch goal. So what is stretch goal exactly? Stretch goals are extremely powerful as they literally stretch your abilities and skills way beyond your current level. They force you to think out of the box and to develop ground breaking, revolutionary strategies.

Well, let me give you a clear example here. Imagine if there was a high jumper who had to get over a high jump bar. If he was into setting just normal, incremental goals, he would set the bar slightly higher than what he cleared the last time. If he cleared the bar at 5 feet the last time, he would set an incremental goal of 5.5 feet. With enough training and effort, he would eventually achieve this goal easily.

Now, what will happen if he was to set crazy stretch goal? Let’s say if he set a goal to clear the bar at 50 feet? Is it possible for him to achieve it?

Stretch Goals

Most people will think, “No way, it is impossible to jump that high”. Yes, you are right, it is impossible to jump so high. However, you must remember this, did I say that he had to jump over the bar from the ground? No! Jumping is just an assumption that we all make, since it is what he has always been doing! Success Is About Doing Things Differently.

So you see, if you keep on thinking the same old way, it will be impossible. But, if you were to think it from a different angle, everything is possible. Continue back to the story, what if he could use any strategy known to man to get across the bar? Would it be possible now? Of course! If you think creatively, you could come up with thousands of new ideas how to jump over that 50 feet bar. For instance, you could use a trampoline, pole vault, a rope, even helicopter.

You see, as long as we keep setting targets that are incremental, we will always have the tendency of doing what we used to do. We will always keep to the same paradigm of jumping from the ground. What most people do by setting incremental goals is that they will keep on doing the same thing over and over again, with the same strategy, try harder and harder.

Your Minds Will Think Creatively to Come Out with Strategies to Achieve It

If you set stretch goal, your brains know immediately that it is impossible for you to achieve it if you are using the same old strategy. What your brains will do then is to be forced to think out of the box, come up with a strategy that you never used before. As a result, you will tap so much more of your own potential. Did you know that you already have all the resources you need? You already have The Powerful Resource In You!

Take achieving financial freedom as example, if you are going to set incremental goal like to earn an extra $100 each month, your mind will tell you that you just have to do the same thing, but harder. However, when you set crazy stretch goal like to earn an extra $5,000 per month, your minds will tell you that it is impossible to achieve this by using the same old strategy. What you will do then is to come up with new strategies to achieve it.

Thirty years ago, if you told someone that almost everybody today will be walking around with a telephone the size of a credit card and it can also play music, take pictures, communicate with computers and send pictures, they would think you were crazy.

Is Your Goal Unrealistic?

Why is it now a reality? All it took was for someone to think the ‘impossible’ and then make it real. Everything you see around you first started as an idea in someone’s head. Everything is created twice, first in the mind, and then manifested in physical reality.

Were the Wright brothers being very realistic when they set out to build a flying machine? Not only were they not scientists or engineers, but it was believed by the scientific community that it was physically impossible for machines that were heavier than air to fly. Again, by setting stretch and crazy goals, it force them into thinking out of the box, and they finally invented the airplane.

Another thing is this, by setting stretch goals, it is going to motivate you even more. Why did I say so? Just think about it, is earning $1,000 a month is going to make you jump out of bed early in the morning when your alarm rings? Or maybe earning $100,000 a month will do the job better? Which one will make you jump out from your warm bed?

On the other hand, the thought of believing and commitment to earn $100,000 a month will certainly drive you to take a lot more action, right? I mean, think about it, if you were to set goals, then set stretch goals that are crazy, but make sure that they are achievable and have deadline. If you don’t know how to set goals, read this post, The #2 Ingredient For Success.

5 Factors That Prevent You From Setting Goals

May 4th, 2008

Again, if you want to achieve exceptional results in your life, then you will need to design your life, have a clear plan of what you want in life, only then you can achieve what you want. Success rarely happens by chance, we have learned all these, which you can also read in my blog, The Power of Dreams.

If setting goals is so crucial for us to achieve a successful and fulfilling future, then why so many people fail to do it? Why are so many people allowing their life to pull them in all directions? There are a few reasons, and for me, these are the 5 reasons that prevent most people from designing their life, their destiny:

1. Limiting Belief

The first thing that holds most people back from setting goals are their limiting beliefs. Many people only dream about what they would love to have. However, when it comes to committing to a specific target and plan, they don’t even bother. Something inside them is telling them “It is impossible, there is no way I can do it”.

You know that these are nothing but limiting beliefs. Unless we break these past generalizations about ourselves, we will never dare to design goals that drive us to the next level. Thinking back, 50 years ago, if you told people that you want to create something that can connect people from all over the world, with a size of your palm, which can also be used to take pictures and play music, people will say that you are crazy.

Goal Setting

This thing is now a reality, it is called your mobile phone. 50 years ago it is a myth, but now, it is a reality. So you see, what you have in your mind is just beliefs, and beliefs are never real, they are real only to you. It is the same when people say that it is impossible to reach the moon. Read this, Your Beliefs Determine Your Success.

2. They Don’t Know What They Want

Yes, for most people, they don’t even know what they want in their life. Actually, it is not that people don’t know what they want. What truly happens is that most people stopped daring to dreams of what they wanted. When we are kids, we often had fantasies and dreams about what we wanted to have and be when we grow up.

However, as we went through life, we met with so many failures and disappointments that our rationale, critical mind has forbidden us to continue to day dreaming anymore. As a result, our creative juices and deflate our passion.

We need to learn how to unlock our imagination and set our creative minds free, free of fear and inhibitions so we can dream clearly and with growing excitement of what we truly want out of life.

3. Fear of Failure

This fear of failure, of rejection and embarrassment is what probably paralyzes most people from even starting out. Know this, the only one who can tell us that we failed and make us feel bad is… ourselves. Yet, this is how we often shoot ourselves in the foot. The moment we did not achieve what we want, even on our first attempt, we tell ourselves we have failed, and feel really bad.

This is the pain that prevents us from going further, and this goes for the majority of the people. People who constantly set exceptional goal and go for it do so because they define failure differently. They believe that not getting what they had set out for is not failure, but feedback. They don’t feel bad about it at all, they believe that they only fail if they give up.

You can do the same thing for yourself. Let me ask you this, “What would you do if you knew you couldn’t fail?” Would you suddenly go out and do a lot of things you never dared to do? I bet you would. Then why don’t you do it? After all, there is no way you can fail unless you give up. Remember, You Are Not A Barracuda.

4. Addiction to Soft Life

Most people are risk averse because they are addicted to a way of life, a soft life, a cushy life with habits and material comforts they are loathed to change or risk losing. Unless that comfy lifestyle is imminently under threat, they won’t do anything that calls for iron will and discipline.

Setting goals and really going for our goals often means changing habits, sacrificing time spent hanging out with friends. This is why people make half-hearted attempts. As soon as their new path impinges on their old habits, they withdraw.

Remember, there are no shortcuts to success in life. Therefore, always be prepared to make what appears to be sacrifices and, if you do, the rewards will be there waiting for you.

5. Setting Goals Don’t Work

How many of you have tried to set goals, but they didn’t work? Is it true that it did not work? Or it is you that did not work? Remember, setting goals in isolation will not get you what you want. However, they are they first and major key to the Ultimate Success Formula. If you don’t follow up with your goals by developing a strategy, taking action and changing your strategy from feedback, you will not be successful.

Remember, it is not setting goal not working, it is by merely setting goal, you will not get what you want. Goal setting is just something that make you focus in your life, in your direction. You will still need other ingredients like commitment, action, never give up, etc to make your goals come true.

I hope that you are clear now why most people don’t dare to set goals. If you have finally made up your mind and decided to set crazy goals, these are the criteria that your goals must have, The #2 Ingredient For Success.

3 Amazing Success Stories That Guarantee Will Motivate You

May 3rd, 2008

Recently I came across an article that summarizes 3 amazing success stories of real-life. I felt extremely motivated after reading this article, and I believe that you will be the same.

Oprah Winfrey – Street urchin to talk show host extraordinary

What would you say of a child who was born to a single 13-year-old mother who was struggling to survive on the streets? What would you say if I told you that this child became the victim of multiple physical and sexual abuses before the age of thirteen herself? She later became pregnant and gave birth to a still-born baby.

She often got into trouble with the law before the age of fifteen. You wouldn’t bet too much hope on her future would you? What if I told you that this person was Oprah Winfrey, one of the richest and most successful women in the United States? And she is an Afro-American as well. Before this, I have also posted about Oprah Winfrey, you can read the full cover story here, very inspiring, The Oprah Winfrey Success Story.

Superman to Paraplegic…and now an Inspiration to all

Now, think of Christopher Reeve. Many of us remember Reeves as invincible Superman. He not only had super strength but super powers, he could literally fly. More than that, Christopher Reeve had the fantastic physique to make the role he played to super stardom, magical and believable.

Then, in 1994, a tragic horse riding accident left Reeve paralyzed from the neck down for life! Initially, the meaning he attached to the accident was that his life was over and that he would be a burden to everyone.

Utterly depressed Reeve wanted his doctors to take him off life support and allow him to die. It was his wife who asked him to give himself (and his family) two years. If, at the end of the two years, he felt the same way, they would find a way to let him go.

Christopher Reeve

But as Reeve‘s rehabilitation began, surrounded by his very loving and supportive family and friends, he started to attach a totally different meaning to his disability. He began to see that he (because of his fame) could become an inspiration and symbol to all those who are suffering from various disabilities, and who have lost hope.

The meaning he gave to his experience put him in a resourceful state. As he continued to bear his massive disability stoically and improve, bit by bit, he started to write what went to become a best-selling book called ‘Nothing is Impossible’.

Though imprisoned in his body, Reeve gave hundreds of moving speeches and inspiring seminars; he even directed a movie and won an academy award.

Millions around the world have been inspired by Reeve indomitable spirit and he has raised millions through the Christopher Reeve foundation.

Terry Fox’s Marathon of Hope

Heard of Terry Fox, Canadian marathon runner? Well, at 18 Terry was diagnosed with cancer and had to have his right leg amputated. Most people would see this as a tragedy and never, in their wildest dreams, would they see themselves running. Not Terry Fox.

This courageous man decided that he would use this experience to raise money for cancer research and make a difference to all cancer sufferers. So, despite having only one leg, Terry started to run across Canada to raise a million dollars.

Sadly, half way through his journey, Terry contracted another cancer, this time in his lungs. He was forced to stop his run and died on June 28, 1981. However, because of the inspiration that his courage had created, he raised over US$24 million for his cause.

Today, over $330 million has been raised around the world through the Terry Fox Marathon of Hope.

In all of our lives, there will always come a time when things seem unfair, that no matter how hard we work for something, we did not get what we believed we deserved. It may even be a terrible tragedy. Many people allow events such as these to destroy their self-esteem, their faith and belief about themselves and the essential goodness of others.

If you let all the events that are happening around you control your life, then you will never EVER achieve any success. You have to control and take charge of your life. Sometimes, even if something terrible happens to you, you may still choose to look at it from the brighter side. This is a post that can change your life forever, Event + Response = Outcome.